Talking to Children about a Suicide (Guide)

Talking to Children About a Suicide is a conversation tool resource intended to assist parents, caregivers, and guardians in addressing the topic of suicide with children when it occurs in their community or if they have lost someone to suicide. Although discussing suicide can be challenging, research indicates that these conversations do not increase a child's risk of suicide. On the contrary, open dialogue can provide a valuable learning opportunity. Developed by the Mental Health Commission of Canada in collaboration with experts and stakeholders, this guide offers guidance specifically tailored for parents, guardians, and caregivers of children under 12 years old, equipping them with the necessary tools to navigate these sensitive discussions effectively.

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Research has shown that children who experience a loss from suicide cope better when they are given honest information. It’s even better when it comes from a trusted adult, in language that they can understand and in an environment they’re familiar with.

Talking to Children About a Suicide

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